A Simple Way to Help Your Family

If you have a current will, count yourself among the minority of Americans who have done their heirs an important service.1

A will’s primary purpose is to help convey titled property. It’s not a good place to communicate your wishes regarding personal matters or to provide specific instructions for your survivors in the event that something were to happen to you.

A letter of instructions, while not a legal document, can help your family cope during a difficult period by providing information that has no place in a will — such as the location of the will itself.

Where’s the Will?

A letter of instructions doesn’t need to be an eloquent treatise on the meaning of life and the importance of family. Its job is to guide the survivors, so it can take the simple form of a list or the casual tone of a letter to an old friend.

Here are some common topics to address:

  • Where to find important legal documents,including wills and trusts, birth and marriage certificates, insurance policies, deeds to real property, and vehicle titles
  • Bank and retirement account numbers, and the location of safe-deposit boxes and tax returns
  • Contact information for people to notify, such as lawyers, accountants, and clergy
  • A list of creditors and any bills that need to be paid in order to keep the household running smoothly
  • Instructions for the funeral and any pre-arrangements with a funeral home and/or cemetery
  • Your wishes for the distribution of personal possessions, jewelry, heirlooms, and other keepsakes

Once you have drafted a letter of instructions, tell key family members where it is kept and leave copies with trusted advisors. Take the time to review it regularly to help ensure that it contains the latest information.

1) FindLaw.com, 2008

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